You will agree with me that Women control access to sex and since pregnancy is a natural and predictable consequence of intercourse, a woman who decides to have unprotected sex knows what she is getting into and what to expect. It was her CHOICE and she, like everyone else, deserves the consequences of the choices they make.
This should be Corrected: the question should be what of the men they DECIDED to get pregnant for?
Besides, the man she decided to get pregnant for is not any other man's business. Your business as a man is to prioritize your long term Well-being and make life decisions that minimize your chances of marital misfortune.
"What if she became a single mother as a result of rape?"
Good question... that Makes it even worse. For starters, you aren't the one that raped her so drop your savior-complex and quit trying to suffer for Someone else's sins.
Most importantly, you are not qualified to deal with all that pain and trauma she most likely carries. Not to mention the biological baggage that comes with having a child. "What about single fathers?"
That is a question for women to answer. Let them tell us what their standards are on that subject. If they aren't talking about it the way they talk about not wanting broke men, we already know the answer.
"But she could be a 'victim of circumstance?'"
Yes. So are poor men, men without beards, short men, dwarf men, men with small penises, mummy's boys and light skinned men.
All these are 'victims of circumstance' also People who reject men that are victims of circumstance want men to accept them when they become 'victims of circumstance.'
They are practical and ruthless but want you to be led by your emotions and consider their situation.
No sensible man should partake in this fraud.
"So, are you saying single mothers don't deserve love?"
No adult human deserves love for merely existing, let alone for being a single mother.
To deserve something means to do something or have or show qualities worthy of a reaction which rewards or punishes as appropriate.
So, saying a single mother DESERVES love is saying by virtue of her condition, she has done something that requires she be rewarded with a man's love. And generally speaking, there is no truth in that.
If anything, having another man's child disincentivizes prudent men, From committing to her and for good reason.
Away from that, you only DESERVE love to the degree to which you can give it. Merely Being a woman does not make you deserving of a man's love and definitely not when you're a single mother. If a man is enamored enough To give it to you, fine. But you have not done anything to DESERVE it and so should be thankful to him for doing you a favour.
"What if it is not her fault?"
Unless she was raped or is widowed, it is her fault. She CHOSE to sleep with and have a child for a man. She shouldn't have. She made a poor life decision. And everyone is primarily responsible for the 'mistakes' they make.
"But I know a man who married a single mother, and he is 'happy?'"
I also know a man who got run over by a truck at full speed and survived.
Does that mean I shouldn't discourage people from avoiding getting run over by trucks? No.
Men, most women are not single mothers. You are surrounded by childless beautiful women in their biological prime with considerably less sexual baggage and psychological trauma.
So do not go into a store and spend your hard-earned money on the most problematic item on the shelf when there are thousands of desirable options with less handicaps at lower prices.
Committing to a single mother as a young childless man in your prime, is a stupid game you should only play if you like winning stupid prices.
We already have enough red flags to look out for in women so marrying a woman who carries proof of making poor life choices (As is often the case) is an absurdity.
You're risking self-sabotage and marital dissatisfaction to protect and provide for someone, with little to zero quantifiable reward.
It's like playing Brighton to win Bayern and staking your life savings with zero returns.
Or playing Russian Roulette with 5 bullets in the chamber. No man should be allowed to hate himself that much.
She's looking for who to save her but unless your first name is Jesus and your last name, Christ, you are not that guy buddy. Do not add stupidity to simp act, i hope you reading undastand my point. Good afternoon my fellow hivians. Hope you are all entertained by the world cup games? Stay safe y'all, thanks for reading my post today 🙏 you are special.