There are times in our life that we feel like being alone, being in a silent, cool and condusive place , not because of anything, it might be because we want to read and needed to be in a quiet place so what we're reading will assimilate, there are time we want to write and would like to be in a place that distraction won't come, there are time we will like to pray alone where there won't be anybody that will disturb as well, that is, it will be between me and God. Also there are time we will also like to meditate,think about our life and we would need to be alone. To end it all, there are times we would just like to be alone, just to refresh ourselves, receive fresh air and just need a place to be comfortable.
And to be sincere with you, some place don't ask anything of you, just let you be. As for me that place is balcony. Yes it's balcony, i know you'll be like why balcony of all places i can be to be alone. To you, you might be wondering why i choose balcony and not places like bed room. But i have my own reasons for choosing balcony over bedroom or other places. But i can tell you, by the time i tell you my reasons, you will aswell reason with me.
Before i could choose balcony as my comfort place, i have tried many places, like bed room, worship place and many more, but all this places didn't work well for me and didn't give me the Comfort i'm looking for. For example, i noticed that when i choosed bedroom then, when i'm there for reading, i'm always too bored, no fresh air and if I decided to turn on my fan, i'll end up sleep off. That's when i see that , bedroom won't work best for me. Also there was a time i decided to choose worship place like church, i'll go there with the mindset of reading and it's another thing i'll end up doing, like doing church things, distraction from the queer people practicing, then i tell myself, this isn't a place i can be for my comfort.
But to my surprise, when i tried balcony of my house, i see that i hardly see any disturb in anything i go there to do, be it going there for reading, praying, meditating or thinking and some times sleeping self. I found out that, people hardly show up in balcony if they don't have reason why they have to be there, and most time when they show up, they will rather come because they want to take fresh air, read or sleep which will not bring any distraction or noise for anyone there. I tried balcony many times, and i see how comfortable it was for me and since then i've choose balcony as a spot that always brings me back to myself.
Being in balcony never make me bored for once, when i feel like taking fresh air ,i go there and sometimes i go there just to look around every where in my area, hear news from distance, see things around, in the next street or long distance. Infact it's always fun anytime i go there because i always achieve my purpose of going there no matter what it may be. So i hope you've seen the reason why i'll choose balcony over and over again.
If you wouldn't mind, i'll like to know that one spot that brings you back to yourself aswell. Thanks for reading through my blog.
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