Life experience and drama have really taught me a lot of lessons that when I begin to look back at things and situations, I feel bad but in other not to allow myself to be down I just overlook the situation and move on. We humans don't showcase the same attitude in terms of how we relate with others, where we have people who showcase good character and people who showcase the opposite.
However, characters like this in most cases depends on the upbringing of every individuals which also reflects on their personal lifestyle. It is a personal choice for you to showcase what you want to be remembered for because we have so many them that include riches, lifestyle, behavior, talents and so many others.
But for me, what I want to be remembered for is a good name. My reason is that, you having a good name is a legacy that will be remembered for years, which people will respect as this would also be an example for so many people to follow. Being rich is also what people can remember you for but having a bad name to it wouldn't make majority come close.
A good name brings good relationship and connection which is a benefit and legacy to lay down for the future. I always try to be nice to be people in my own way where I like to carry others along. I am someone who likes to showcase love and care to people around me because that alone gives me joy and put smiles on people's face.
Not everyone will like you for who you are because in one way or the other, they will look for fault just to showcase that they dislike you. However, that is what is expected to witness in life as the only way forward is to be who you are and avoid people changing that positive mindset of yours.
Having the aim of securing a good name comes with so many challenges and temptation but when you stand on your ground by showing your good deeds, people intend to believe as your actions speaks for you. It is really not easy to maintain that good name but for future purpose, it will be worth it.
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