Talking here after some experience days ago is just for me to keep it and also to made known that so far you are in this world you must always do anything in your reach to just to be a man of yourself and not also allow anyone ridicule you because any opportunity some set of people sees, they will take it as if you are a low life person and that is why you must always top up your game in all ways even financially. So i will take you all through my journey and how it really went so you all can also follow up.
So two days ago i was invited to a church for a program by my friend and even though the friend was not presently in the country but he just wanted me to be present for the program so i had to leave very early that day so i could meet up with the program. So for me after the stress of travelling i had to go directly to the venue of the program which was overnight and i am still going to the main point of the matter which is the sidelining. So after i finished from the program i went for which was overnight, i couldn't sleep because i had to travel back on time so i could meet up with the show which my band is going for in the early hour of the day.
So the event that made me come back early was a wedding where the band was called to sing to make the event a memorable one and also very interesting just for more awareness and merriment that something is happening around. So I couldn’t sleep so well because i was having it in my mind that i needed to get to somewhere so i had to call one of my friends to help me pack my dress and also not to stress my self of getting home first then returning to the venue since we all are going together as a band.
On getting there, i heard no invitation no entry i was like didnt they know they called a band and all band members can’t have invitation card individually so we were first delayed outside before the band leader had to call the celebrant and they allowed us in. You know the saying that when you are in your own vicinity your own people won’t cherish you much and that is the case here.
After that is done we were about to start playing which is going to last more than an hour and people were served food but the band members were sidelined and were not given any. Just like they came to the party on their own but even though we had to just honour one of the celebrant but later they brought food that was not enough for the band i was so pissed looking like we were beggers but i realised one should just strife to have things on his own and do what you want to do without waiting for others. People will treat as nobody if they find any opportunity to do so that is why personally you must not belittle yourself