@ julescape, You have beautifully described with examples the dilemma that Arjun found in the path of selfless deeds and diverse knowledge of Shri Krishna. For the seekers who want to know the mystery of the Bhagavad Gita, Arjuna has opened the way to knowing the love of Shri Krishna. Thank you.
RE: Decoding mixed signals on the path - Bhagavad Gita ch3:2