Hello to my fellow community members,
Friends, yesterday we talked about sacrifices, and I think I was not able to write all the things or all the feelings. But yes, I think I was able to deliver my message. And today we are going to talk about something else. Friends, I want to talk about celebration, celebration in the context of your happiness. This is something we all should do, and I will tell you how it will help you with your future goals as well.
When it comes to celebration, especially for children, I have seen parents not doing it. They are good at celebrating birthdays, they are good at going to parties, but they forget to celebrate the little successes that their child achieves.
For example, there is a scenario where your child scored full marks in mathematics. Motivate them, and how will you do it? Your words do not mean much to the child. The child's brain is not there to take your motivational speech, but they are ready to take the celebration.
If you are giving them a party, a small party, you do not have to spend too much. Maybe a pizza party, a noodles party, or anything your child likes. Cook it and then give it to them and tell them that it is a celebration for scoring full marks in the subject.
When you learn to celebrate the happiness of your children, they will learn to be happy, and it will help them in the future. When they grow up, they will have a mindset where they know that even a small achievement means a lot, and step by step they will reach their final destination.
That is why they will start celebrating their achievements with you when you get old, and that is what we all need as parents. So it is a plus for both the child and the parent. The child is learning something when they are small, and the parents are getting something in return when their kids grow up and celebrate their achievements with them.
These celebrations help them get motivated and do even better in the future. And it is not out of the greed of getting a party, but yes, it is a kind of motivation for them. You might say that they are in greed of these celebrations, but no, that is not the actual thing.
Even if you refer to this as greed, I think they are learning to become a better version of themselves. So why not celebrate and do it often? It is not like you just have to celebrate once a year or twice a year. No, celebrate whenever you think your child has achieved something, even if it is small.
And never compare your children with someone else. Maybe sometimes the scenario will be such that your child might have just passed in a subject. And maybe he was failing in the same subject for the last few times.
And that is the moment to celebrate that at least he got past his failure, and then he will learn to succeed further and score even more marks in the future.
So friends, that is all I wanted to talk about today. I think we learned two good lessons in two blogs from my profile: sacrifice and celebration when we are happy.
Thank you.
