When you think about when your parent gets harsh on you on some things, you think that they might not like you as a kid. But one thing we do not understand is that when you see someone that corrects you on whatever things you do, they really want the best for us and not just because they do not like what we are doing or they just want to scold us. Some children will just grow not to accept reproach because they feel they can do whatever they like and no one can question them about it.
I look at some people around, and I just wonder why some people just want to be nonchalant. Having too much love for material things tells on whoever we are and are growing to be. Most people in this current world and current time really want money because they feel it gives answers to most things in this world. But on the other hand, there are some things to which money might not give answers. But when we as humans have too much love for money, we misbehave, and then we go overboard on many things that are meant to be handled with care.
I was checking out some reels yesterday, and I saw some things online that really drew my attention. I saw a lady who was too obsessed with money. Well, this is not the matter of just a lady, because it happens to both male and female. But I will be using what I saw as a case study. This lady was too engrossed with money, forgetting that it can be used to set some traps for her. Well, the boyfriend was able to realize that this lady was just after his money, and he does not want to lose on both ends.
He then pretended that he had a surprise for her to know the kind of person she is. On getting to where they went , he hid the real gift from the last as a surprise and then came out with some amount of money. Immediately the lady threw up, saying all sorts of things to the lady. Immediately, the guy came to realize that she would not appreciate little things. He waited for all the dramas, and after she was done, he came out with the initial gifts that were meant for her.
She started to apologize about everything she had said to the guy and his friends. But what can that change? One thing I tell people is that when you have really worked for money to some extent, you will understand how it feels to spend money lavishly because it is very easy to spend money but hard to work for it. If I were in the guy's shoes also, I would have done the same because it would have been a painful thing to marry such a lady and then invest every little thing you have in her when you do not know she is just after the money you have. Based on my suggestion, this is why I advise that as a man or even a woman, you invest your time and money into things that will yield value for you because these things are what will be there for you later in the dry times. Be wise!