There are some times in life when we all need motivation to move forward. Because sometimes we all feel demotivated at some point. To be honest it's not my first time dealing with it, has been happening since my childhood.
Whenever I tried to do something if I failed in that thing I would feel demotivated and no longer have the desire to do something. As I grew I have left doing so many things because I was afraid of failure. Well, it's not easy to deal with these things.
My problems might seem small to someone else but I believe to understand someone's situation you don't have to face the same consequences you can already feel it by thinking yourself in that kind of situation. But it took me too long to realize so many things, now I am an adult and my mindset is very different to how it was before.
As a kid I always loved to play and racing with friends was my favourite part, but there was a contest once I won in the trial days and I was running with the students who are 2-3 years older than me because I always ran faster than them.
The next day was the tournament day, that day my mom decided to feed me an apple to eat but usually I go to my school with empty stomach and that day she forced me to eat it because the teacher told her that I should eat before coming to school. After having the apple I went to the school and was practicing, I felt that I got slower than yesterday and when the match started this time I didn't win the match I terribly had lost it.
I was so disappointed in myself also blamed my mom that she fed me which made me slower. That day I felt so demotivated that I stopped joining any kind of tournaments. If only someone could motive me and made me realize that losing is a part of the game then I think I would have done something else in life.
So, I believe motivation plays an important role in our life, because it shapes us very well. I won't blame my parents for that because they are also new as being a parent, glad that they have learned and grew to be a good parent when it was required.
When I got older I started to have conversations with my dad and I told him how I felt. Whenever I would feel down I would go to him, he never disappointed me. Everytime we had a chat I had learned something new from him.
If I feel demotivated he is the one who always inspires me. As time passed I realized he is the motivator of my life and I don't know how will I deal with life if my dad is not there anymore. I just can't imagine about that kind of day.
My dad is very knowledgeable and he always gives me motivation so that I won't lose hope in myself. There are plenty of times when I felt giving up in something but my dad always encourages me to do it, because he believes in me and I think it's important to have someone in life who believes in you and it's the biggest motivation in life.
Also, when I look at my dad I feel motivated because I really want to do something for him in the future. I just want to make his life easier as he did for me. So, my biggest motivator in life is my dad.
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