This is definitely a tricky scenario I think! In many ways it is a scenario that has many factors involved. Some kids respond better when they are asked to do something and told of the consequences. Other kids need the consequences before what was asked is achieved. I think our son is the latter but hopefully that doesn't stay forever! I myself am more of a practice person than a theory. I think our son is the same way as well.
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