Words travel faster than anything you can imagine and, once spoken, can't be retrieved. This is why it is so important to release good words to the kids. Words can build a child's life and at the same time break him down. This is because their heart is still tender, so it needs to be handled with care. There was a story I heard of a parent whose words had a bad impact on their child.
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f the times the child came second in class, and instead of cheering the child, they told him what happened to the person that came first. Does he have two heads? The child vowed in his heart not to let anything come close to the present position. After a while the child lost interest in academics, and that was how he almost never did well because the things they taught always came alive.
Use words that will build your child rather than words that tear apart. You should be your kids' highest motivator because they will always want to look back and see that you are their biggest fan.
Furthermore, kids who are trained with loving words will also grow to learn how to be kids with words rather than being mean to other kids and progressively their own kids. Much pleasure and peace to your kids from me to you.