QUOTES ON RELATIONSHIPS BY JESSY MICHELLE.
Love is required in every relationship but it doesn't determine the longevity of your relationship, ATTITUDE DOES.
Management is a key to maintaining a relationship
You can't love if you don't feel loved,you can't offer what you don't have.
Love evaporates
I don't expect a perfect relationship from imperfect beings.
Let's dive in.
Relationships are one aspect of life we can't do without. Every single day of our life,we relate with people.
We have to relate,so we can live. It's a part of life. If you must work,you have to relate with people. Infact relationship with people are inevitable.
There are times we have to be intimate with people but sometimes we get hurt,trust evaporates.
That's why most people have decided not to trust ever again,then again u hear people say……I can't ever trust,I can't have a friend.
RELATIONSHIPS can be managed. Everything in life requires proper management including your relationship with people.
If you mismanage anything given to you…..you lose it.
If you mismanage your relationship…..you lose it.
Why do our intimate relationships get broken?
My favorite quote is that of George Washington which says:
Be courteous to all but intimate with few and let those few be well tried before they gain your confidence.
George was right on this. No relationship whether intimate or whatsoever will last long if you pair with the wrong people or wrong person.
It may last for a while but not forever
He used to be my best friend
We did everything together
Many times,we jump into relationships without checking the people involved.
He is nice
Doesn't make him a friend
She looks nice
Doesn't make her a friend.
Of course we need people but the right ones. Being courteous is different from being intimate. You can't be intimate with everyone that comes your way.
If you want to have a lasting relationship with the people around you. Learn to pair the people around you. Because being intimate with everyone is a wrong approach.
Different species of animals are reared differently in different conditions and habitats.
Just as animals,you should learn to pair the people you relate with. And you may ask WHY?
If your relationship with people is disorganized,your life would be that way too. You would live a confused life because you are relating with different species of people with the same method.
Your relationship with people affects:
Your thinking
Your attitude
Your character.
To mention but a few.
You shouldn't be intimate with everyone,BE COURTEOUS.
No doubt,we all want a long-lasting relationship,we want people who would stay with us and not go away.
This can be achieved,but bear this in mind. Love is not just the only perquisites to having a long-lasting relationship, ATTITUDE.
Attitude gives birth to a long lasting relationship. No doubt love is very essential but your attitude towards every relationship you find yourself in determines the longevity of that relationship.
Love itself needs management. Humans are complex bodies,we need not just love but proper management and understanding.
If you pair with the right ones,you also have to manage that relationship.
Pair the people around you…..BE COURTEOUS to all but INTIMATE with few else you lose every relationship you find yourself in.
Don't always look for what to get in every relationship you find yourself in, think of what you can offer.
Humans aren't perfect,so I don't expect a perfect relationship from imperfect beings. But we also can't do without a relationship, because it's a part of life.