I didn’t mean to offend you by asking this question I had when I read your post. You are right that extra activities are good for that, but then again, not all kids do extra activities. When they go to school they are 5 days out of 7 in direct contact for multiple hours. And after that you can still do activities like you propose.

Once again, I support your vision, I just don’t know how to go around the social aspect, wich you definitely lose some how.