Hey Steemian.... Good night all. How Do You Do?
Steemians....
Happy households may be only words in marriage, because in fact there is no happiness as cool as in films or in romantic novels, it takes the name of struggle and responsibility.
The reality is that happiness must be picked up with mutual patience, mutual sincerity, open-heartedness, mutual support, mutual acceptance of their respective weaknesses and strengths, mutual understanding, mutual openness and mutual trust.
And of course all that can be achieved if there is adequate responsibility in it. So it is appropriate when people say "marriage is actually easy, because the heavy one is the responsibility".
That's why you must be careful when deciding to get married, because marriage is not a place to find pleasure, and the duration until death separates, not just 1 month or 2 months.
Because maybe deciding to get married for anyone can and seems easy, but for those who really want to accept the consequences after marriage it is rare.
That is, not a few people who say they are ready to get married, but after living together there are various kinds of problems, and the problem comes from its readiness first only from the mouth rather than from the heart.
That's right, many of them were just excited at first, but after a long time getting married and living on the same roof, it turned out that the love faded.
Why? Because there is no basic responsibility and religious knowledge, just try it from the beginning to know how to equip yourself with knowledge and responsibility, then the love that is increasingly real.
Many of them were initially genuine and wordless, but when they were together, they broke their promises and seemed to forget their promises when the contract happened, just because they knew that reality was not as beautiful as hope.
So it is a big mistake if someone is married just to live happily, because living a household is not as beautiful as his words, it takes a lot of patience and sincerity to be deployed, so that happiness can be created real.
So know, getting married is a beautiful one, not his love, but his responsibility. Because in reality the household if it is not built with adequate responsibility will really feel bland.
Love and affection are in it as if living without meaning, there is no blessing and there is no good that can make them both peaceful.
If you don't believe, look at those who are married but have poor responsibility, only complaints, problems after problems, and remorse, not happiness and peace.
That is why it is said that it is very difficult for a marriage to last long with sufficient good and happiness, if there is no sense of responsibility that binds the two.
Thanks. Good night.