If asking this question or even commenting on the subject squelches my chance of becoming a Steemit Sweetheart --Oh well.
Here is a list that might work.
Know the right people and play up to them.
Pretend to be something you're not if needed.
Have a beautiful avatar image smiling.
Commenting with any ideas you have will be most helpful to me.
If you think you are currently a Steemit Sweetheart or know of one let me know so I can follow learn.