What does it take to be a Steemit Sweetheart?

If asking this question or even commenting on the subject squelches my chance of becoming a Steemit Sweetheart --Oh well.

Here is a list that might work.

Know the right people and play up to them.
Pretend to be something you're not if needed.
Have a beautiful avatar image smiling.

Commenting with any ideas you have will be most helpful to me.

If you think you are currently a Steemit Sweetheart or know of one let me know so I can follow learn.