The hurdles of life are normal in the journey of life. The worst thing that can happen to a man is looking down on himself. Never you despise yourself for any reason because what matters is not what people think about you but what you think about yourself. Even the bible attested to it that 'as a man thinketh in his heart so he is'.
Whenever men say you have come to the end of the road, God will say it is just a sharp corner. So think good about yourself, say good things about yourself and pray good prayers for yourself.