Igba Nkwu Nwanyi (wine carrying), Ibu Nkwu Nwanyi or Ihe Nrisa is the climax of marriage in Igbo culture. It is the traditional wedding ceremony. That day, kindreds (Ikwu na ibe) of both families, friends, well-wishers, would officially know that the girl has been given out in marriage; that day, people officially know the husband of the girl. It is on that day that the young is officially handed over to her husband, It is on that day that the two become husband and wife traditionally. That day, her colleagues who are yet to get married, would assemble with their music to entertain and to send her off.
The day is full of merriment. At different places and various times, the son-in-law provides all the drinks-pots of palm wine, carton's of beer, crates of soft drinks, bottles of hot drinks, tobacco etc. The father-in-law provides the food.
Igba Nkwu Nwanyi displays Igbo culture and meanings to the fullest. There are so many aspects of it. How about that special pot for pouring libation, to pray for good things that the newly married couple wish themselves; to pray for good luck, fruits of of the womb (children), long life, happy married life and prosperity. This aspect is usually done by the father of the bride or any elder from the bride's family or kindred. My most favourite.
The traditional Igbo religion believes in re-incarnation, it also believes that the dead are alive in the spirit world. That is why the Fathers and Elders invoke them to intercede in their supplication to God almighty.
If you attend an Igba Nkwu, and you have not witnessed this aspect, do not go yet. There are other interesting aspects. Ndigbo, show to the world.
The kindred plays an active part in Igbo trad marriage. When you are marrying an Igbo lady, the items in the list collected before the d-day is shared between the kindred. An aspect of Igbo culture.
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One fundamental principle in Igbo marriage is reflected in the saying ''anaghi alusi nwanyi alusi'', and that literally translated means, that the worth of a woman cannot be quantified in material terms.
As such, one does not in practice pay the full bride and whatever that is done with regard to the bride price, is symbolic.
igbo kwenu!
igbo kwezuonu!!
