I wrote it as a little note under the rain last night
I will tell you about an example from Edward De Bono's book. So you can understand what I suggest.
There is this beautiful woman at a cocktail party. She has flawless skin, elegant clothes, and a perfect figure. Suprisingly, she seems to be much on her own. People come up to her and quickly drift away. Then there is this short, balding and mousy man. He is always surrounded by people in animated conversation with him. So what's going on?
We can have beautiful body with exercise, cosmetic, etc. But how about beautiful mind? In fact, beautiful mind is part of Emotional Intelligence (EI) which it more important than IQ. Have you ever heard about "You can have a smart brain even like Albert Einstein. But without attitude? You are nothing" It proof, EI is a priority than IQ. That makes we able to pay attention, that makes we have an exchange of view (for the good way of dissagrement with someone), and people got plus point from inside of us.
As we get older, physical beauty tends to fade. But beauty of mind is independent of age and can actually increase with wisdom and experience. The beauty of mind shows in our conversation. We like to spend our money and time to increase physical beauty. But how about our beauty of mind? Hopefully will ballance.
Dewi Hughes in her book also told about beautiful mind. All about what we choose. A lot of friendship or just a little bit? Happiness or sadness? Love or hate? Ballance or not? All in all, starts from ourself. She told to look inside first. Because beautiful mind starts from our heart.
May us always be happy and well even under cloudy moment. God bless us.
