Bireuen, Rabu 14 Maret 2018
Salam sahabat steemian...
Parents are the first and foremost person in the process of forming the personality of a child. The parents determine where the child will be taken. The child is still very dependent, asking for content, provisions, ways of thinking and acting from his parents.
Families who bring children into this world, naturally in charge of educating the child. Since childhood, the child lives, grows and develops within the family. All the family's contents first filled the child's private. Parents unintentionally instill habits inherited from ancestors and other influences it receives from society. The child accepts with imitation, with all the pleasure, though sometimes he does not realize what the intent and purpose of education is. Certain habits, which the child wishes to do, are implanted in such a way that it is not to be done by the child. Thus, he will take the family wherever he is, even if he has begun to think further. The bigger the sianak, the influence is wider until finally the entire environment of his life.
To balance work and family, parents should be smart to share it. Leaving children for a long time is not a good thing. Most children who are left out for long periods usually do not care about their parents. Children become naughty because of lack of attention from their parents.
How to divide the time in between.
- When you get home from work, it must be very tired. However, do not make it an excuse to ignore children. dinner habits with family is an effective way to establish good communication between father, mother and child. Ask him what his activities are today, how his lessons and his friends are at school, whether he's having fun today, or any other questions that show that parents really care about them.
- When in the office, take some time off to call home, just ask if they have eaten, tell them to do homework, and say that parents are very fond of them. Maybe trivial indeed, but this trivial thing can give a deep impression for children.
For children: the child should be aware that the parent works for the future of his or her child and the child gives understanding to the parent if he / she feels less attention by the parent.
For parents: parents should be able to divide the time for children with work so that children do not feel ignored and should guide the child wisely.
