I think macho cultures can cause such toxic behavior in men because often in such cultures the (strong) man is expected to take what he wants in a dominant way... my controversial piece of opinion: both metoo and sexual liberation (of accepting each others for each others fetishes) can possibly solve each other by also removing the shame on people that want to be groped in public or want to grope in public, but don't do it as they feel ashamed to ask for it, like seen in this school of life video

... now certain fetishes like couples in very open relationships have a clothing piece from which they can identify each other: the ankle bracelet for swingers... if each fetish had its own symbol, the guys that want to do that will be able to release their pressure with a person who consents... it would be worth attempting to introduce a symbol where people of that fetish can recognize each other and hence state consent without feeling the (unjust) shame (due to lack of sexual liberation) of consenting publicly... It should be a sign that cannot be mistaken like maybe a bracelet with an acronym "ILGIP" (i like groping in public).