jealousy burns all that there is no care about everything that happens because, when the sense of "affection" all can change and all changes occur without the planned before. Well, it all happens by itself. much of the violence that resulted from jealousy, torture to murder. Such acts of persecution must be based on negative emotions such as anger, disappointment, sadness, and jealousy. From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, David M. Buss, professor of psychology at the University of Texas, Austin, judges that men tend to be more jealous if their partner is sexually affair. Meanwhile, women judged more jealous if the couple cheating emotionally.
Why is that? Men need to make sure their partners are sexually loyal because they do not want to raise children who are not hers. On the other hand, women rely on men because their partners are looking for resources to continue their lives. Once the man cheats, there will be a woman's concerns if the resources originally assigned to him are transferred to another woman.
Times are changing and generalizing that women are all economically dependent on men unenforceable. Looking at these views is just a simplistic way of looking at jealousy issues. How to explain established women who still feel jealous to find her husband sleeping with another woman? Or a man who does not accept seeing his partner chatting intimately in the messaging application with other men even though they both never get in physical contact?
In the article titled "The 3 Reasons We Can Get Jealous" published in Psychology Today, clinical psychologist Seth Meyers Psy.D. states, one becomes jealous because they feel romantic relationship threatened by the presence of third parties. Further from Meyer's observations, he concludes there are three internal problems found in jealousy.
First, the insecurity issue. This is related to inferior feelings or low self-esteem. Meyer finds jealousies feeling he is not good enough or valuable in the eyes of the couple. Second, obsessive thoughts. One of Meyer's clients said she felt jealous almost in every relationship she lived.
So, the psychologist assesses the client meets some symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder. This is what triggers the client to continue to worry, think that no-no, and obsessed with something. Often the client thinks his partner is unfaithful as soon as there are small things that indicate uncertainty. Finally, Meyer attributes jealousy to the problem of paranoia in a person.
