Anak memiliki pilihan, sementara orang tua punya kepentingan terhadap keputusan anak-anak mereka. kondisi seperti itu mengharuskan anaknya untuk melawan keputusan orang tua. demi mempertahankan cinta terkadang anak harus melawan keputusan orang tua.
Dalam pandangan Islam apakah hal demikian disebut durhaka kepada orang tua. orang tua melarang keputusan anaknya tanpa disertai alasan yang logis itu adalah kesalahan, orang tua tidak boleh menjerumuskan anaknya pada jalan kesesatan. menikah adalah menyempurnakan ke imanan itu adalah keputusan yang baik.
Terkadang orang tua harus mempertahankan ke egoisannya untuk melegalkan keputusannya, padhal itu berlawanan dengan syariat.
Menikah adalah keputusan yang baik harus tetap dilanjutkan meski ditentang orang tua.keputusan itu harus diambil, restu orang tua bisa belakangan.orang tua tidak mau melihat anaknya dalam kesesatan namun juga mempertahankan kehendaknya itu juga salah.selamat moga keputusanmu membawa berkah dunia akhiran.istrimu menjadi penghangat dinginnya udara yang merasuk kerelung-relung hati.
Marriage is a sacred decision in one's life, in Islam marriage is perfecting part of faith. sometimes choosing a decision to get married will have a lot of reserves, especially economic factors and parental consent.
Children have choices, while parents have an interest in the decisions of their children. such conditions require children to fight the decisions of parents. in order to maintain love sometimes children must fight the decisions of parents.
In the Islamic view whether such a thing is called lawlessness to parents. parents forbid their children's decisions without a logical reasoning that is a mistake, parents may not plunge their child on the road to error. getting married is perfecting the faith is a good decision.
Sometimes parents have to maintain their selfishness to legalize their decisions, even though it is against the Shari'a.
Getting married is a good decision that must be continued even though parents oppose it. the decision must be taken, the blessing of parents can later. parents do not want to see their children in error but also maintain their will is also wrong. hope your decision brings the blessings of the world to the end. your wife becomes the cold warmer of the air that permeates the hearts of the heart.