We as human tend to always think why am I not as blessed as the guy next door, why does he have to date the best set of ladies while we manage to live life and bla bla but sincerely we all have the same brain capacity as others, we all have the same 24hours as others, no one has two heads but let me be candid with you, life owes nobody nothing. Whatever you think you deserve will never be given to you, it is taken. That next door dude ain't luckier then you, set a target and developed a healthy self esteem.