Sometimes we think we have to be absolutely perfect right down to matching purse and shoes. It does not have to be that way. We all have days where we just wanna be comfortable,lounge in pajamas,get sucked into netflix, and order take out. It does not make you a bad woman or mother to fall apart at times. To be stressed and ready to just throw your hands up and say forget it. Take time for yourself. Go get your hair done. Spend an evening relaxing. We are only human. We forget, we are late, we over do things, we give up easy, we cry, etc. none of these things mean you are a failure. We all to the best we can and if that is not enough to some it is ok. As long as it is enough for you that is all that matters. When I get in my stressed out mood I like to light candles and listen to kenny g. Music is a great way to help relieve stress and bring you down to your comfort zone. Find what intrigues you and go for it wear your sweat pants and messy bun hair style. As long as it makes you happy it is perfect for you. You do not have to keep it together every minute of every day. It is ok to bust loose, speak your mind, cry, turn your music up loud, scream,etc. and if you feel someone is judging you and you do not wanna be like "oh yea I am having a bad day and I am losing it". just blame it on p.m.s. lol. Just remember you are only human everyone breaks, makes mistakes, and crashes. As long as you feel that you are doing the best you can and keeping it together the best you can at the end of the night that is all that matters after all you are the one that has to lay down at night with the thoughts going through your mind. If you are happy with those thoughts then you are being the perfect you.
"You're only human.You don't have to have it together every second of every minute of every day." -Anne Hathaway