Every word we say has its own meaning, but certain words will have a far different effect from each other. The effect can be in accordance with the expected word, but can also be very contradictory.
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I have collected 5 words and phrases that will not even be thought of by a smart people to say,
1. "I Need ....."
The word need shows dependence, so it does not seem flexible and pushy. Smart people tend to use the word need, because "want" indicates that it is entirely willing and he is willing to be responsible with it, while the word "need" shows dependence and he impressed imposing his responsibility on what he needs.
2. "You Must ....." or "So that person Should ....."
Smart people reduce the habit to require something. They prefer to use the word have to than must, if it is related to the obligation to be performed. Liability is mandatory, but it will give a more flexible impression in the process.
3. " You Can't do ......"
Smart people are aware that all these possibilities must exist. They will greatly reduce thinking can't, but more on thinking not yet. To say can't to them is the same as blocking the way for possible possibilities.
4. "Ohh, that's easy" or "Easy to do it"
Smart people realize that every situation and condition is different from each other, although the scope of work is the same. So they will avoid saying something is easy or easy. If so, they are not saying, oh, this is so easy! but will say, it should be easy, but let's try it.
5. "Just ..... this why can not" or "It's just a small thing"
Smart people will not underestimate anything. They will greatly avoid from inserting the word Just in the sentence. No matter how much his impression is required, he will not say simply because he realizes that the value of the object of speech is relative to everyone. For example, oh, the job requested is just a design anyway.
If you still use one of the above words, it should start to be reduced, and use alternative words. So that the purpose you want to convey will have a positive effect.
A philosopher and political activist from Nagari Sungai Batang (Padang, Indonesia) said:
