My dad went to a barbing salon to take a hair cut last Saturday only to come back complaint that the barber does not have respect . If you are from Nigeria and you are from the Yoruba speaking part you would sure know that respect is a great deal as our elders take it as gold. so my dad came back saying the barber was gisting while cutting his hair and it was very disrespectful and he has made up his mind not to go there again. The qestion I ask him was that did you tell him , he was like know and I said he should call him so he would know his wrong and correct it Incase of next time. So he did that and settle the issue and life goes on.
How many of is has people wronged us and we just kept quiet about it, keeping that angry feeling inside and deciding what we would do is in our hearts. Theirs this Nigerian saying that says don't worry when his cup full I will show him the orther side of me. That's how we are instead of trashing out the issue now we wait till it becomes exgeggirated before we say something and at that point it becomes very difficult to settle . I meet this girl that would tell you ones you offend her straight away at that moment , people used to say we was blunt but I liked her because she was straight forward unlike the others. If you are a lover of peace like me , the best way to settle whatever issue you have with someone it when it just starts. And the funny part is that the other party is not even aware, and most times ignorance of the wrong he did to you, so why not tell him and trash it out, sometimes at tha stage the simple magical word of sorry is just enough to settle the whole issue. Aside that telling the person makes him or her a better person to work on her flaw, or where they see characterise ...violence died not pay , peace does and no better way to maintain the peace when the fire is still low.