Hello coco(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠) I can relate to the part were they compared you to your cousin, my parents once compared me to my cousin who has alot of achievements but I didn't really mind them because someone told me that I have my own special achievements and that I'm perfectly fine just being me.(but actually I just don't like listening to there lectures that's real me) welcome to hive btw, and have a lovely day friend🙏😇