🦋 I am on a mission. And that's to live the Truth no matter what.
Not as easily done as it first seems, because in any given situation you always need to honestly examine your deepest intentions.
This is where most of us fail because we wish to see only the socially accepted parts of our Self yet we are not too dirty from pointing our fingers and blame.
When we come to the inner-standing that that's the exact way how to block our development we can evolve above the ego which likes to hide the Truth in some darkest corners and tries to distract us.
Only then we can truly heal and create the paradise of which we all dream.
The first step to entering those gates will go through self-reflection. If we aren't where we want to be if we don't have what we wanted to have there are still parts of our Self we rather hide in the shadows. Once we point the beam of light at them, we will never be able to go back into hiding.
Because facing the Truth is mesmerizing and we will not settle for less than that - the ultimate universal Truth wrapped in a blanket of eternal Love.
🦋 Welcome to my space dear new friend.
I appreciate you taking the time to read my piece and wholeheartedly hope to be able to bring some enrichment to your life with my writings.
Let me tell you a bit about what you can expect from me.
🦋 A few years ago, at a very low moment of my romantic relationship, I’ve discovered two amazing practices that saved my life.
One of them was prolonged water fasting and the other was Tantra.
I never really looked at Tantra as something for myself, as I have rather traditional views on relationships and I always thought,
it was a dirty sexual practice, surrounded by sleazy types. And as I found it is partly so, I also found purity in the midst of it.
By a coincidence, if we are to believe in those, my Tantra teacher appeared in front of me.
I knew immediately, this is another level of wisdom, this is what I’ve been unconsciously seeking, I’ve missed the words to explain myself and now they are laid out before me on the screen. This lady knew what I knew and she brought had a mesmerizing way of telling it. Her words made me cry, the Truth was flowing through my heart as a golden river.
My Tantric journey started. I signed up as a student of the Priestess school.
The exercises during the courses I attended opened me deeply to new insights. The revelations I’ve received, the inner-standing I’ve had, the turmoil I went through and the tools I was gifted with all ignited this fire inside me and I knew, this is my path.
This is the gift I have for this world. I finally found a way to accept who I really am. My sexuality, my sensuality, my wildness, my fears - it was all welcome in this new realm that opened the gates to me.
I’ve been in my recent relationship for eight years. It was beautiful and intense from the first look into each other’s eyes.
It was horrible as well. The mirror that our partner holds up can be showing us some ugliness.
But it never lies. We need to look really closely. So I did. I took every little (and big) trauma, played it out, made it bigger, visible, and healed it eventually.
Although I am not fully there yet, I’ve gained lots of wisdom and experience. I became an expert on going deep and pulling out the shadows. While doing so, I realized that my passion is to work with couples especially.
My vision and wish for everyone are to find peace and harmony in their romantic relationship. I truly believe in the sacred union of Souls, I believe in divine design and that we can return to it. We need to use some tools, we might need some help from the outside but we must do our work individually and together in order to live an extraordinary life.
I am here to help people to deepen their love for themselves so they can have deeply loving and satisfying relationships.
Tantra guides us to find our core, to transform our darkness, to play and expand. It doesn’t matter if you are happy or if you are unsatisfied in your relationship, there is always something you can learn from Tantra. It’s not just about better sex, it’s about how you treat yourself. Because people around you can only ever give you the same kind of love you are giving yourself.
And for that, we need to look into the mirror held up by our partner.
I like to help people to navigate these deep and seemingly wild waters so that they can safely return to the shore and enjoy the fruits of their hard work. When we can live our life free of chains, unapologetically and expansive we will become a beam of light to those seeking the way out of the darkness. When we are inspiring each other to become better human beings we are also changing the whole world for the better. Each one of us is equally important to the collective.
If Tantric living and Soulful relating is the way for you, I’ll be grateful to take you on this journey.
Thank you for reading, I truly appreciate you 🙏
~Nika 🦋