TEACH THEM TO LOVE
Much of the success that children get in life depends on the seeds of love and motivation that parents sow, but this crop is the result of the quality of interpersonal relationships developed by parents, of the healthy idea they have of themselves and what they believe they deserve in life.
In order for your child to grow up with the feeling that he can achieve everything he sets out, you must convince him that it can be done, and above all he deserves as much love as he can give.
It is true, nobody knows what is coming, but when a person is ready and ready to give love and sow friendship in his path, you can be sure that, whatever the situation you face in your life, you can overcome it and find in each experience a positive lesson.
To sow in your child the feeling that love can grow in your environment, allow the following premises to be maintained in your home.
SHOW YOUR AFFECTION
Making our children feel loved is one of the bases for tomorrow to know how to love and become reciprocated. The most direct way to express our love is through kisses, hugs and caresses. While it is not advisable to pamper them excessively but it is essential to use a language of love and affection.
Giving affection is gratifying, it helps to soften relationships and above all to feel comfortable among loved ones, which show that in any circumstance, despite the problems and errors they maintain an intact affection. However, there are people who have difficulties to show their affection physically, and others argue that signs of love foster weakness in children.
The truth is that nothing makes a child stronger than love, because only this feeling makes him feel safe enough to go out into the world in search of his own destiny. In addition to the physical signs of love, there are other ways of giving love:
To make them feel that they are very attractive, it is not about deceiving them but about highlighting their points in favor, for example: “your eyes are beautiful”, “your hair is very bright”, “you have a spectacular smile”, “you are beautiful ”… It is important that a child values his physique that he thinks is something beautiful. This must be so because the perception of his body is the first thing he sees and he must know that it is valuable.
Later we can show you what position the body should occupy in its scale of values, but it will always be important that you feel good about yourself.
When your children come to tell you I focused all their attention on them, attend to it and with total disposition listen to their problems because each age has its particular problems, it has no excuse to leave them for later.
Appreciate his successes, reward good behavior, either when ordering a room or taking a high grade in physical education are important aspects for him, do not let them pass.