Sorry I missed your comment for so long! I'm not part of a sex writing community, per se, but there are lots of us on here :)
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are three talented individuals that come to mind right off the bat.
If you set something up, I'd love to network. Thanks for taking the time to introduce yourself :) I'm looking forward to checking out your work!
RE: Introducing myself: Sci-fi, fantasy, speculative fiction, erotica author