It does feel like that. We were lucky when it happened to us. We had a car. I'd start wherever you feel comfortable starting. If catholic feels right, try Catholic. If the state services place feels right try there. I've found that the church tend to have better support systems than the state. But again, Australian. And I went to Church of England churches.

It's hard man. Not gonna lie. But the human spirit is strong. And the human animal is adaptable. Just take it a day at a time, an hour at a time, a minute at a time. You'll get there