Hello guys good day
Hope you all had a great day
Well today am going to talking about heartbreaks in relationships
I know its a deep discussion but am gonna be brief and will just be hitting the main points
Now let's start,
I tried asking few couples why they are dating each other, and the replies I got were so funny.
Some said its cos of beauty others said he or she can fuck well others said he is rich and others said they didn't have an idea while others said my friends say its not good to be single only few said stuffs like she understands me, he is the one for me, I love him
So I came to understand that must couples don't really love their partner they are just there in the relationship because of some stupid reasons like pressure, money, lust, beauty, need for a fuckmate, etc
Pressure when their friends or parents are pressuring them to date in other to marry, so they just pick anybody, not because they like them but because they are tired of the pressure they are getting.
Lust, its when you start dating someone, thinking you love them when your just lust after their body, nothing more nothing less.
So finally when u find out its lust not love, you tend to leave the person, leaving them heartbroken.
Its so sad that some will even enter into marriage making the rate of divorce high in the world.
When people stop focusing on all this things and fall in love for the right purpose, the rate of heartbreak will reduce.
The best way to stop heartbreaks, is finding a best friend in your partner, not just going for face and everything. If your partner is your best friend then there won't be stuffs like lack of trust jealousy etc
So guys to avoid heartbreak or breaking someone's heart find a best friend in them.
Have a nice day friends.