There is a book that is very good to call "Parents this is a 911"
Written by: María de los Ángeles Rondón.
Psychologist
And I really liked this is a little synthesis of the chapter.
The Complex adolescence.
At the age of twelve, cognitively maturing the central nervous system is the moment in which our children make their mind, their point of view and their perception of the world, reason why we have no other option than to get away from us. Why, obviously, We will be your first objective to question, judge and finally condemn.
At twelve they realize that we are not the big thing. On top of that, we parents are bigger and younger than a few years ago and we are disappearing from their scale of priorities. Friends appear on that scale. calm, this is normal. THEY ONLY FINGEN THAT THEY LEFT OF LOVING US TO BE ABLE TO CARRY OUT THEIR PSYCHOLOGICAL TASK OF THIS STAGE.
Our children spend some time together with the rest of the parents and do not have enough time to do it, an account of being very close to their children, providing them with liquor and the whole class of permits that are out of line with good and good behavior. Then all parents are better than us. students prefer to talk with another person Parents
All this is true, I hope you read it ... thanks.