"15. It is this personal devil which makes men fear the past, the present and the future; fear themselves, their friends and their enemies; fear everything and everybody. When fear is effectually and completely destroyed, your light will shine, the clouds will disperse and you will have found the source of power, energy and life." -Charles Haanel
Control, the opposite of instability, is a feeling. Instability is also a feeling.
Feelings leads to behaviors. Behaviors of fear, or behaviors of confidence. Nobody would disagree on the fact that self-confidence is one of the most precious thing an individual own, even though a lot of people always tend to choose to feel instable, therefore showing behaviors dictated by fear.
To follow in my last article, the only goal a living individual can aim is growth. And as i also said, growth is obtained when achieving goals. Achieving goals means actually going through steps. Facing hard times. Hard times
Those same hard times that have you feeling instable. Everything is about the mindset : you can keep feeling instable, let fear control you, and then run away (because that's why fear wants us to do) : you lost ! You failed achieving growth, therefore don't feel happy/satisfied -and that do feels shitty for everyone-.
Or you can control, choose to be strong, struggle, strive, and get things done ! WIN !
Sometimes emotions are too strong to be controlled. Still don't fear instability : as shown, instability leads to failure... And failure leads to knowledge ! I love to fail. You can't underestimate the power of failure when you look at it lucidly.
Failure is a bless.
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