I was walking in the path of fear, surrounded by confused thoughts about myself, my strengths, love. Praying in corners for mercy to modern gods.
Suddenly one day, I saw it, what I was looking for, a reflex in the spark of light, my truth. I am a man.
You can call me John, I’m a writer and I love information. When I joined to steemit I was wondering what to write about, but first, you need to know something about me, I’m not the kind of guy (not anymore) who all the time is yelling about everything, but if I had a problem is all about unmanly men. It doesn’t make me mad but sad, because so many problems in the world are provoked for that lack of manliness, and I’m not saying that men has the absolute truth or our way is THE way. The world also need the women way. But with manly men, the world would be completely different.
That’s why I want to write about being good at being a man, and I’m not talking about drinking beer all the time or let you beard grow. No, it’s about your values as a man, your goals and your desires. How many times do you let that girl go because you didn’t have the balls to speak to her? What about your job? Is it really what you deserve- what you want? What about you? Do you have absolute control of your destiny? You make your choices or your choices make you? Can you say you’re a plenty man? What is to be a man?
But who am I to tell you how to live? Probably as you, when I was younger I wasn’t really a man, I was scared of everything, I wasn’t living, and I was wasting my time with videogames (It’s not that bad) and yelling about all the bad things that happen in my life, until one day I noticed that if I want a better life, if I want a better job, if I want a girl, I should take care of that on my own and it requires courage.
Let’s be clear, I’m not a pick up artist or a couch, and it’s not my intention become one. But if you think you can learn something with my amazingly written posts, so read them, read them all!
I think steemit is the best place to write about this. It’s full of people who want to become better, who want a change, who want to do something bigger, something out of this world, and as everybody says. The change starts with you.
And hey! If you are not agree with any written in the following posts (or this) you can always write about that in the comments, ‘cause men need other men to become better men.