Hi and Welcome! Sorry to hear about your loss and I appreciate your attitude! In the end, our peace and joy comes from finding it in the moments, regardless of circumstance, which you seem to be doing :)
When you say you lost 10k on sh*tcoins, do you mean you bought coins other than BTC, ETH or LTC and then sold at a loss? I ask because I too am new to cryptos and am buying the above slowly, but I plan to hodl, so I am not so concerned with the current rollercoaster..... trusting in the long run on those (BTC, ETH and LTC).
Appreciating this community already and I will do my intro soon, just joined yesterday.
Peace out