Hi, it's Sophia!
Considering the fact that I am that one friend who always gives advice, even when nobody asks for it, here is my third introduceyourself post about advice on succeeding in everything you do!
Do you ever feel like you could do better at college, job, or a project, but losing your motivation always stops you from reaching your goals?
I graduated from law school, so you can say that I'm seriously qualified for this post (histerical laugh). Here are some tips on how to achieve goals you never thought you could achieve (like, ever).
Number one: SET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT
You need to know what is your goal. Sometimes people tend to have many different goals and never accomplish any of them, because of the lack of focus. Pick a goal and stick to it! You will be amazed how good you can be at something, when you persist in it.
Number two: PREPARE FOR REACHING YOUR GOAL
If you need to pass an exam, find a good place to study and get all the books you need before you start. If you want to finish an important project, get some help or put in some extra hours. Whatever you want to do, prepare for it in advance, so you can focus on your goal.
Number three: BE PERSISTENT
Start working on your goal and don't give up! Usually when you start working on something, you will have a motivation and, with time, it will wear out. Don't let it wear out! Keep studying, or working, and do whatever you can to reach your goal. A good way of reaching your goal is making a daily, weekly and monthly plan. That way you can keep track, and keep yourself motivated.
Number four: DON'T GIVE UP WHEN YOU FIRST FEEL LIKE IT
During your studying or working, you will probably get to a point where you feel like it is not worth it. When that happens, try to think about how you will feel when you finish that project or when you pass that exam or get that promotion. Try to imagine that feeling of joy, and whenever you feel down, remember that feeling. It will give you strength and keep you going.
Number five: DON'T GIVE UP WHEN YOU MAKE A MISTAKE
When you hit a bump on the road, or maybe stop working on your project or stop studying for a day or two, you will feel as if you lost your enthusiasm, and you will never get it back. When that moment comes, you have to start working or studying again! If you lost one or two days, you didn't lost your goal! You just took a day of rest, and you can get back on track very fast! Just like one cookie won't destroy your diet, one day won't destroy your whole plan. Just keep going!
Number six: GET YOURSELF SOME MORAL SUPPORT
It is easier to reach a goal if you have someone who is constantly encouraging you. Find a friend, or a coworker, that will help you reach your goal, support you and keep track of your progress. That way you will feel even more motivated to reach your goal in time!
Number seven: REACH YOUR GOAL!
Finish your project, pass your exam and get that promotion you always dreamed about! I know you can do it, you just have to believe in yourself!
Are you ready to start?
Good luck!
Love,
Sophia