"Community and family's barriers sometimes force people to leave their beloved person"
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Love is divine, it makes any one mind pure and it makes anyone great.
Dear steemians,
In my previous posted i told about my self, form which community i belongs from, It's called as "Horizon (Cleaners)" community in Bangladesh. These community has a lot of restriction, They are much more superstitious, and very narrow mentality. In this community every family are very aggressive, and very conservative. They are steadfast in their ideals, they never try to justify which is the right and which is the wrong. They just follow their blind laws, If someone violates the law then his punishment is very difficult. They are love to disconnect themselves from this beautiful world. To clean the dirty form society, they make their mentality dirty too. They like to remain in the habit of alcoholism and contain distorted culture.
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I am so ashamed to make such a bad comment about my community, but it so real. Maybe God himself is very upset about them So they refrained from God's blessing. Where love is forbidden, there you have no any permission to love anyone's out your community, if unfortunately you fall in love with anyone of other's community, you have suffer a lot for this, you will be punished for this forever. You have only permission to get married only with anyone who belongs same community.
When i was in class ten, i had been fall in love with a great guy , still i have never seen any person like him, he has a great mentality to serve people, to love people, to do something for his country. he is always my idol. We try a lot to change the mentality of our community people,
was from different community, and he change his religious into Islam. He know just know the real definition of life.
We together try our best to change our community people mentality, we try to take the child to school, at first it was quite impossible for us, but by the hard work shadon we able to take the children to primary school, in those time i think that our love can be change the condition of those people and mentality also, in the end they will accept our love, but our thinking was wrong. When able to know about our relationship, they started to avoid shadonchandra, they started to stop him from coming to our society. They started torturing me and my family unjustly. They could not accept our relation they started to forced my family to married of me and at last my family completed to married of me with a boy of our community.
I have to scarifies my love for the betterment of my family, For the blind faith of our society, I was forced to leave the most loved person of my life.
I don't know is it possible or impossible to change this mentality of our community's people, and i have a faith that only love can change their mentality.