Strong topic,

I was aware of what you wrote here (maybe not able to explain it as detailedly as you did). I agree that you are probably born with it, as you are born straight or gay,...

That being said, whereas I do not think that non-convicted pedophiles should be branded as criminals, I understand the fear about it.

From the outside I can only look at it li I would look at a recovering alcoholic. It's a brave long and hard fight against oneself, but one opportunity, one moment of weakness and they will slide.

Perhaps this view is not correct, but in that sense I understand that people fear pedophiles, even when they have never laid a finger on a child. (I would do to if had children)

Kudos for writing about this post, and informing us though, with enough explanations of this kind you might be able to remove the taboo, be it ever so slightly.