Introspecting
There are many who crave a good partner, but lazy to improve.
Every time there is a post about the dream mate, his heart is always fond of wanting such.
No matter, no matter what.
This is the nature of man, always wants the best for his life.
The man who feels his ordinary-shalihan or who often bermaksiat would crave women shalihah as his wife, so that later his children are educated & treated in a good way.
Also, women who feel their shalihahan not yet how much or still often bermaksiat though, they also would crave a good man again shalih in order to lead him in married life, bringing the direction of family life sakinah.
However, desire is just a wish.
After all, if you want & crave a good partner, then we better first improve themselves.
If you want a good partner or shalihah, well we first make ourselves shalihah or shalihah.
If you want a partner who is awake, we should first take care of ourselves.
So if we are good, surely God will give us a good partner.
The clergy say, this is the meaning of the verse,
"Good lady for a good man".
God does not promise a veiled woman to a bearded man, no.
But, the good for the good, the righteous for the shalihah, who guard with the awake.
Not why we crave, but it would be nice to be a dream.
Nowadays many are busy craving the best partner, to the point he forgot to improve themselves.
If now still single, then this is the time to use the time to improve themselves, self-preservation, self-preservation & sufficient provision to marry later.
Not even lamenting fate, upset here and there.
Be classy