What is the solo life? For some people it may be being single. For others, it may mean that they do not have any close friendships with people. For others it may mean that they are independent from others such as bosses or other authority figures. Whatever it is, it is ok. There are a lot of us out here that are living that solo life. If you are living the solo life you may have different thoughts about it. For the ones that are single looking for a relationship there are a lot of people on dating sites looking for relationships too it is just a matter of making yourself available. For the ones that don't have any close friendships there are a lot of people that go to local meetups to meet others that have the same interests are you and who would like to befriend you. For the independent, if you like it cool, if not there are probably a lot of people that would like to hire you and there are also other people that would like to have authority over you life but don't go committing any crimes to find them i.e. the police.
I am sure that there are people out there that think the solo life is a bad thing. I am here to say that it does not have to be a bad thing because though it seems like a bad thing it can be used as an opportunity to get to know yourself better and understand the world around you too. It can be used as an opportunity to explore other things, people and places. Just like I mentioned earlier there are meetups and dating sites but that is not all there is. There are also museums, farmers markets, poetry readings, social bicycle rides (Critical Mass, Bike Party) just to name a few. Another thing that can be done in the solo life is take some college classes or some other scholastic endeavor. Whatever you do enjoy that solo life rather than despise it if you can.