What lessons have you ever learnt from failure? What has failure made you become? Like you have become hardened to try anything again or you re still that stubborn fellow that believes success would come someday? Very nice scenarios. Failure isn't palatable, very hard to take in even if its in a golden cup...lol. We get heartbreaks when the news break in that our effort was just trashed off just like that. Something happened and your hard earn money got lost. Something happened and your business is shaking off. Well, how much could one gather strength to kick off again? Very hard but very possible.
I hate to learn hard and same as you if am not mistaken. No one would love to learn from his own mistake, we all want what we do to bloom anytime any day but circumstances doesn't always work to our good most times. So when we succeed we re happy we do and when we lost we re broken but should we remain broken ever? No, No...! We need to keep moving on. If you fail yesterday then today is another opportunity to win tomorrow. Failure build you stronger and helps you identify possible lapses and when these lapses re taken into consideration failure is avoidable on next trial.
What have you failed on? You can still succeed on it if you do the right things. Forget yesterday, study today and make tomorrow a better day to live in.
The strength of success is the ability to keep standing despite multiple falls. Ask successful people whether it was an express drive for them during their time of struggle. No one wakes up one day and have everything at his disposal, you must do something to gain other things. A journey of a thousand mile begins with one step. If that step is not taken the journey remains a thousand mile but a step forward makes it less.
If you judge tomorrow by what happened yesterday then tomorrow would be unrealistic. You need to judge yesterday by what happen today and then judge tomorrow by what happened today. That's the system that would help you to move ahead. Always remember that yesterday is different from today and today is different from tomorrow. Today can change tomorrow because what you do or plant today you will reap tomorrow. If you plant nothing you will reap nothing, so, do what is right and the right result would come. NO condition is permanent. You can change what does not work for you to begin to work for you.