You made a right point, you should make yourself valuable to earn people’s affection and agreement.. I am a Muslim also, principle of islam is not to force anything or convert anyone, but to follow the principles of Islam,.. and we are failing to follow our own principles... if we behave in Islamic way first, I am sure the whole world will love islam... it’s not islam that is in fault, but the people who are not following it well... and for that reason no religion teaches anything wrong to society.. it’s just that people are not practicing it right....