Everything you stated above is demonstrably false.
Private satellite launches are a far bigger source of SpaceX revenue than government ones.
Private Starlink subscriptions are 1000x government ones.
Private buyers of Tesla cars vastly outnumber government ones.
Plus Musk is definitely not doing what the Biden Administration wants. He has become a staunch libertarian Republican.
RE: The sickness of the media: Elon and Starlink in Gaza