Steem Is Not For Money.
Hello steemians greetings to y'all, and happy Wednesdayππ.
Please do ensure you participatein the fun time with
on womancrushwednesday. There are freebies to be won and in it, everyone is a winner π.
Back to the main business of this post.
The ulog was about who's birthday is coming up on 11th of June 2018, though I said I won't be wishing him a happy birthdayπ, but let's see how it goes between me and him before then. Maybe I might change my mind.
The real-life talk show was held on the discord channel, of which the CEO is
.
I like been honest, so I most say it's the best have ever had after the variety show usually hosted by , the only girl that her laugh usually do makes my laugh to laugh.
We had our Ulog celebrity, CEO of and
which is no other person than my dear friend
, πππ.
The show started with opening the floor as it was expected by him, since it was his talk show. After that he asked about our own view of fear, of which me and another lady gave our own simple definition. I laughed the hell out after giving my own lay man view of fear, after
told me not to use the word terrified* in my definition of fear due to his name was Terry, πππππ.
After that, gave us his definition and view about fear, which he says.
"Fear is a popular word in our world today and from the inception of time. It is udes to describe our emotional reaction to something that seems dangerous. But also the word is used in another way, To refer to something a person often feels afraid of."
He also talked about the different types of fear which were;
Fear of poverty.
Fear of criticism.
Fearof ill health.
Fear of loss of love or not finding love, (the fear am facing presently).
Fear of old age.
Fear of death.
, the most amazing and funny
steemian have ever meet here π, gave his own type of fear like the fear of been flagged. ππ.
That was so hilarious I must say, even was caught laughing to that too.
made it mad fun when he talked about the fears Nigeria do face too like the fear of boko-haram. He even said we should removed the Haram and leave only the Boko.ππ.
I was like is this really Terry for real.
, the only steemian that knows how to give me headache. Talked about his own fear too when he experienced a killing.
After talked about his view on fear, I was suppose to be the next because
said we should indicate in thd radio-dashboard, of which I did, but I was picked. Due the fact I had spoken at the first place, but
didn't tell me that immediately.
, given the room to share her own view. She talked about stage fright. One of the fear most of we humans do have.
After that, dear was given the room to talk.
Before that, I felt bad. Like I wasn't important or my opinion doesn't matters. I became down. Little things do matters alot to me. And you now see the reason why I said, there are boys who are more emotional than girls, e. g me; I wasn't brought up in a hypermasculinity.
Right from start I was been allowed to expressed my feelings and emotions not until the society made me see it as something that wasn't right.
Also the brainbox of all the discord shows have participated, said he was emotional too. It got me laughing truly I must say.
The joy and happiness I had when coming to the show reduced, but i was later happy at last, I must say. That was when gave me his reasons and the other guys too made me laughed my ass out. ππππ
Here was my own view of fear I wanted sharing too on the real-life talk show.
My fear was the fear of the future, in the scene that I was afraid of what might be the result of my hardwork, like in school.
Don't get me wrong, it wasn't the fear that I won't pass, rather the fear of not coming out the best or the top.
Been a kid and the first child of my parents, I had always been a scholar from day one. I passed my exams and came out in flying colours. I had the attention of my aunt due to the fact i did well. That was always expected of me.
It got to a point where I did passed but I didn't came out in flying colours. My parents weren't happy.
From that day, It created the feae of not coming out the best in my exams, even still now. But I must say that helped me too in been serious with my studies.
Let me cut the curtains here so you won't get carried away. We are on a story about the last night discord show. ππ
Now back to the main matter, the floor was opened to to give us his own view on the topic fear, and as we all know Terry is always known for talking, he talked for what seems like ages but I must say, it worth it with all his explanations and lessons. And did you know most us on the show found his voice alluring irrespective of genderπ.
He talked about how to target our audience with our write-ups. Look out for what particular set of persons on steemit key into and write to suit those areas.
He talked about being different, that is getting the attention of other steemians through our post.
I got to learn that our posts really defines and speaks of who we truly are.
On conquering our fears, he advised we confront our fears and also turn our experiences especially our fears into something invaluable.
He made one of his most comment am so found of which was "What you are looking for in sokoto is in your shokoto."
It got me laughing with way he pronounced the words/syllables.
I was like for real, I can't to meet Terry someday.
, talked on and on that I developed a fear of missing out. Why? You might be thinking.
Well it was due to the fact that I was on medications and the drugs do lure me to sleep and if I don't, I might end up vomiting.
So I had to stay, still he gave his speech finish because one of the things I hate missing out on was Terry talks.
While the show was going on, talked about hearing from
but unfortunately she wasn't able to because of her health condition.
And to am not praying that you might be fine for I know you would definitely be fine.
You went throu the surgery and came out. You won, justas your name implies. So am optimistic you would be okay in few days. Meanwhile stay safe.
So to continue the show, Terry talked about the girls in using what they have for their own good, like their charms.
Lol..
I emphasized on that to and
, of which juliet said she had been doing so ever since.
After the talk show, we were been called to give a shout out. I was called by , I felt loved that night after all the whole emotional swing.
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the guy who wanted to sing for Terry by force π,
my dear friend ππ,
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and , tge boy that sabi book well well.
Y'all made me happy I must say.
And , the celebrity of the night show, who's head wanted to get blown out when Terry decided to maje a tag with her name. I don't know how discord would have looked like if wasn't for you dear.
Let me don't lie o, I felt special too when Terry said i should sing "blank space" by Taylor Swift.
was like, Uche must you sing πππ.
I wanted singing at the top of my voice but I wasn't like who doesn't have neighbors. Singing at the top of my voice would have been like a disturbance at that time of the night.
But I was glad he told me I filled the blank space, that it wasn't blank any more.
And to tell you guys, have been having butterflies in my tommy, after told us she wasn't able to make it or come to the voice channel because she had visitors like those that came for introduction.
Have been happy o, because I can't remembered the last time I ate wedding rice. I just can't wait to attend a great personality wedding like ππ.
The upvote time came ππ. You need to see the way we displayed the true Nigerians that we really are. Everyone wanted singing for Teryy π€£π€£.
The hustle was real steemians.
And finally but not the list you got me surprised when you asked about my gender due to my voice. ππ. I thought you must have known my voice by now and it really got me laughing.
Just like the way saud it to
, am saying it again. "Terry we the Nigerian boys association,we want to say we love you dearly. it's not only the ladies that knows how to express their love to you. π€£π€£π€£.
To show am happy, I would be doing a song cover for you guys, especially to the host and the hostees, ,
and
.
Also , you can use that opportunity to master my voice o ππ. So next time you won't be asking again.
And finally to all you living in Lagos, Terry has been talking about visiting Nigeria, Lagos in particular.
Please I want to make an appeal, If he does, you people should let me know oo.. Even if it's for me to use the money for the thing i value most which is food, in traveling to Lagos. I must surely do.
Maybe my friend might even even decide to pay my transportation fee down to that place.
*Now am signing out.
Am uche-nna.
Am a Ulogger and a celebrity, made it possible.
Please join on on Saturday's by 5pm in Nigerian time on discord channel to talk with
.
And this coming Sunday for variety show on naijapidgin discord channel. will be your host and I bet, you will love it ans even ask for more.
Much Love From Me To You.
Thanks For Reading πππππ.