Jealousy is mental cancer. It is one of the most dangerous emotions that can even lead to the death of a person because of those negative feelings. It's better to be grateful for what we have instead of keeping our eyeballs to the things that any other person own. We all hate cancer, but why don't we understand that jealousy is just another type of cancer?
Don't get me wrong! We all have experienced this emotion at-least once in our leaves and there's no need to hide that fact. We are humans and we make mistakes. Successful are those who learn from the mistakes and the losers are those who keep repeating those mistakes.
Taken from MarriageMissions.com
In order to convince that how harmful jealousy can be for yourself, I'll be explaining the reasons why you should never feel jealous from anyone and why it's good to be grateful for what you have. I'm sure that you're one of the wise people because of the fact that you're reading this article right now.
# 1 - Jealousy - A Career Suicide:
When a person envies from his colleagues at work, he starts to harm them whenever possible and doesn't even care about the friendship while harming them. There can be many reasons for his jealousy such as higher salary or higher status.
The sad reality is that your jealousy can't be hidden. Your actions and words reveal that you are jealous, and the time when your boss discovers that you are planning to harm your colleagues, expect to receive a warning or maybe a termination letter from your boss stating in bold words that "You are fired!". If you don't want to go through such a fate, simply don't be jealous of anyone.
# 2 - Destruction of Family Relations:
Personally, I've seen many broken families because of jealousy. As I mentioned in the first line, jealousy is the worst kind of cancer because when it builds, it harms not only you but also others. Jealousy turns the human into a wild animal who wants to bite and eat a living person alive.
I've observed personally that jealousy is common in joint families. When one family member pays more attention to another, the third family member starts to envy him. Especially when there are two sons of a mother and she pays more attention to one of them, the one with less attention starts feeling jealousy in his heart. In Pakistan, you'll find many such cases where a brother kills another brother just to make himself feel relaxed. That's the result of jealousy!
# 3 - Jealousy -A road to self-destruction!
This is the biggest reason why you should promise yourself to never feel jealous of anyone. Many times when you envy someone, you spend your time on useless stuff and especially in the preparation of plans to harm that person. And when your plan doesn't work out, you start blaming yourself which ultimately affects your psychology and makes you a useless shit on the earth planet!
And it is often seen that jealous people hurt themselves whenever they fail to harm their targeted persons. Sometimes, it leads to a suicide and that's the reason why I call Jealousy a road to self-destruction.
I am sure that these reasons are enough to convince anyone that how harmful it is for your own. Sure, you may become successful in harming others but what's the advantage for you? None! (except the pleasure of satisfying your want).