better you didnt ask, ahahaha. the mess we are all in may have come about because we constantly have other people tell us who they think we are. this constant talking and reinforcing notions other people have about us.

"Wherever you may seek solitude, men will ferret you out and compel you to belong to their desperate company of oddfellows."

it's why i want to live off grid in the forest somewhere where people do not constantly come by and subconsciously enforce their programming on me.
whatever you may be: there is likely only EVER one of them in all eternity! sweet!