Often, in the absence of self-respect, the tendency of seeing negative things about everything in person, not controlling anger, shame, fear, tendency to make others uneasy to others, which has negative effects in their personal, family and social life. As a result, the person himself and his closest people are severely damaged. This self-esteem has been developed since childhood.
We know that the family is the core of all education. Therefore, it is undeniable that the role of family, especially the parent, is to make the child self-respect.
Below are some briefs about what the parents can do to create a child's self-esteem.
Praise your child for his good work, good qualities, good use. Never show love to your child at any time. Let him feel better about his importance in your life. She is very good, tell her that you like her, or tell someone else in front of her. In this, he will build self-confidence in his own self, learn to evaluate himself. But do not condone excessive amount of unnecessary misbehavior.
If there is any weakness in the child, take it easy and tell the child not to have all the qualities, nobody is good at singing, nobody is good at playing. It's not always all that everyone can do. Instead, put it positively about what he can do well. It will not create any hindrance in the matter of not being able to do anything in it and he will not underestimate himself because of something very bad.
Smaller responsibilities than small children, especially from 4 years of age. Such as keeping toys, keeping your clothes up. And gradually let her be able to do some family duties. For example, bringing something from the shop, the guest is actually helping the mother to make an appointment, reminding her of grandfather's medicine etc. Thus, with age he has some social responsibility and day. For example, if you meet the neighbors, salute them and tell them about the responsibility to remove the collars in the street.
Parents will also perform these duties in front of the child. According to the person's personal, family, social and state responsibilities, the person is respected.
Encourage the child to think positively about himself, others, and about various things. Negative need to abandon the tendency to always neglect the child in front of the child. Children usually learn more from older people. So, when the incident is negatively interpreted, it is often the tendency of seeing children and events negatively in the iteration of the same event. Suppose, another child with your baby has behaved badly in school. If you say that the child is inhuman His parents did not teach him anything. Then the child may think of himself bigger than other children and tend to be wary of others. Instead, the child may not understand. At the same time, your child will also have to give condolences. In this, he will not be able to easily evaluate the child's own ideas as well as others. In this way, if we are a little aware then our parents can make our future generations self-respecting.