Hello beautiful people I’ll like to share this with you today !
RELATIONSHIP:
Relationship are very important in humans life, we need to relate more and often with people we need love, care, attention and affection From each other. We have to feel loved and to also love but that doesn’t mean we should remain in toxic relationships!!!.
REASONS WHY LADIES REMAIN IN AN UNHEALTHY/TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS:
The fear of the unknown:
Most ladies or men in toxic relationship don’t know what might happen if they should leave their partner, Some people always think if they leave they might not get someone as rich as the person or they might even end up with someone more worse than the previous.Love blindness:
In a situation where there’s obsession with a person, may be a male or female it might not be clear enough to the person that the relationship is toxic and when he or she is not seeing it as toxic it’s likely they remain there.Low self esteem:
This is a situation where by we have the feeling of not been enough or not deserving better Or we wouldn’t get a better person. This could be one of the reasons people remain in a toxic relationship.
- Hope for change:
Hoping for change or better days allows people remain in toxic relationships that make them end up in a abusive marriage. There was a case where we have this lady in a relationship with a guy, this guy wouldn’t have sex or make love to the lady without beating her not just beating her but makes sure he sees blood on her body before having sex with her. Is that not insane for a normal person? Of course it’s, he kept promising he’ll change till they get married and this same issue continues and that lead to the death of that lady which is so painful. In no case should you wait for change till you get entangled with that person maritally If there no changes in the relationship there’s no need to continue such relationship! It’s not the best for you and you deserve better !.
Most people Tend not to understand that remaining in a toxic relationship could cost them a lot, and might end up Killing them depending on how toxic the relationship is.
You should always have the mindset that you deserve better and you have a purpose to fulfill on earth!!!.
REMEDIES TO UNHEALTHY/TOXIC RELATIONSHIP:
Be Conscious Of Who You Are:
Know your identity, don’t let anyone make you feel less of your self be proud of your self and do what makes you happy, always remember you deserve to be loved and pampered !.Do Not Feel You Need To Help The Other Party Or Trying To Change Them: you should let them be and move on even if it’s not easy, Don’t feel guilty or pity!.
- Read Books On Relationships:
Reading books on relationships will help a lot and guide you through your relationship path.
I hope you enjoy reading this thank you
