Since the dawn of the selfie, dick-pics and duck-face have become cemented in our interactive online experience; everybody’s been laughing at girls posing with a kiss on their lips, and freaking-out over guys sending pictures of their penis to the unsuspecting inboxes of females.
When we take everything at face-value, we miss out on the deeper layers of what motivates the psyche of people to play how they play...
Because most people are unconscious, their actions speak louder than their words do.
There is an Art to Listening, that includes the ability to communicate with foreigners; babies; and animals — despite the language-barrier. 🐾
If we don’t pay attention to actions and behaviours, body-language and intuition, we miss out on what people are really saying.
We miss reading between the lines; we miss seeing “the signs”; and we often miss the opportunities to connect, level-up, teach, or help others understand themselves: relationship.
We fail to esoterically mirror what another person needs, to help them reflect.
Reflection should be a skill we all learn — as young as humanly possible — so that we don’t project our unconscious issues onto others...
The first point, is that duck-face is general, surface, and public, while dick-pics are personally targeted to someone; this is what makes them so shocking, confronting, and unwanted — the inbox is an intimate place. Our public-profiles are having a conversation with the world; our inbox is having a conversation with just one person, whom we choose to let into our private, psychic-space; it’s deeper, and more personal, in an inbox. It should be entered with respect.
Since mating-games are unavoidable — unless humans are headed for extinction — I believe we should approach them with more consciousness, and start to evolve our understanding of ourselves, and others: what duck-face and dick-pics really have in common, is their offering.
Guys > Sex
Girls > Love & Affection
Sex should never be without Love & Affection, but Love & Affection can be without sex.
( — obviously, that’s a personal opinion, and people are, of course, free to have as much Loveless-sex as they consensually want. But Love is Higher-Up, so if we want to remain an upright species, we should aim higher. Even higher than Love, is consciousness. But it’s in the Heart, that Sex and Consciousness meet.)
✨Anahata✨
People don’t know how to communicate, because they’ve been taught that you get what you give — guys give dick-pics because they want sex. 💪
Because they want naked pictures of you.
Sex for sex.
They’re offering sex, and asking for it. They’re showing you what they have to offer — and hoping you’ll approve, and accept — meanwhile, you didn’t ask.
Guys: a female is only interested in a penis-offering from someone she Loves.
Offering her your penis will not make her Love you.
If you desire to have sex with a specific female, find out what she Loves, and offer her those things. She’ll let you know how you go.
Girls give duck-face because they want kisses, kissing, affection, and Love. 💋
They’re offering Love to the world, and may be hiding a smile of crooked-teeth, the gravity of depression and trauma, insecurity, or the kid-cuteness they want to drop, that isn’t safe in this world; they’d rather embrace their blossoming womanhood. Generally, they’re exploring how Love looks on them.
A whole bunch of people just do it for fun, these days. 😜
Sex is (usually) a one-on-one act, whereas LOVE travels near and far, here, and there, and is suitable for all ages. Love and Affection are not primarily sexual.
Deeper, still, we’ll talk about YIN and YANG; YANG is an offering.
As discussed in many of my sex-ed articles, the male sex organs are inherently a YANG energy. Giving forth.
The penis is offered up for pleasure, and for procreation and service to creatrix. In the container of Love, it is an offering of Love and Light and Heat. Alchemy.
— good penis, that is. Bad penis does not know how to behave, and pushes people away, instead. Too much YANG. Extreme. Unmastered. Scary.
There are, of course, perverts, who thrive on the thrill of shocking school-age children, women, and other people in general. This is a psycho-sexual illness — this behaviour is a cry for help.
Flashers and dick-pics tread a fine-line.
Guys: stop being cavemen. The more conscious you become, the more you can be — including caveman, when and where appropriate.
In the Female energy centres, it is the female-Heart that is YANG, and giving forth her Love, energy, and offering to the world. 💖
If the general dick-pic male wants a true, interactive sexual experience, he would do well to learn to open his Heart, the way he expects a woman to open up her body to him, for the sexual union.
Be more YIN.
There are teachers, everywhere...
It’s a surrender to a higher power.
When she finds home, in his Heart, only then do they both start to fit together.
Mostly, humans are doing it wrong.
OM
💃💖
*Edit: September 21, 2018
Lana Del Rey just released a new track that confirms these Loving Lips:
Oh God, miss you on my lips
It’s me, your little Venice bitch
On the stoop with the neighborhood kids
Callin' out, bang bang, kiss kiss