In a narration, it is mentioned from Sahal bin Saad that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, "If (the misfortune) is in something, it is in the horse, the wife and the dwelling." (Narrated by Bukhari)
- When viewed, he is annoying
The first characteristic of an unlucky wife is when seen, she is annoying. of course a husband is expecting that when he sees his wife, then there arises a sense of affection to his wife. However, when he sees his wife, but what arises is a feeling of annoyance, then of course this will affect the life of the household.
Can not be denied that a husband who has tired of working to earn a living, would expect the wife to welcome him with a sweet smile and a fragrant body. So that it can reduce fatigue and fatigue in work.
However, if it turns out that the wife just look what it is with a sullen face, the body is smelly and ragged, then of course the husband will feel annoyed. Because the wife is not helping him to get rid of fatigue but instead make him less excited.
Therefore, in Islam it is advisable for a wife to always appear attractive to her husband, so as to increase the husband's love for his wife. That way the household will be happier and more peaceful.
- If said, he hurt
The second characteristic of an unlucky wife is when she says, then all her words only hurt her husband. Usually this happens when a husband makes a mistake that raises the anger of his wife. So not infrequently the wife finally issued words that hurt his husband.
Though a wife is supposed to behave and speak soft words against her husband. And when he is angry with her husband, it's good not to say words that will hurt his heart.
- If left behind, he betrays
The last characteristic of an unlucky wife is when the husband leaves her, then he betrays. A wife has an obligation to maintain the honor and property of her husband when the husband leaves.
So if it turns out a wife actually betrayed while the husband was away, then this will not only be a bad luck for the husband but also bring wrath from Allah SWT.
Such are the three characteristics of wives who bring bad luck to their husbands. But please note also that the true attitude of a wife like this can be changed. Therefore, a husband plays a very important role, because one of the husband's duty is to protect and lead the wife to be a good life partner.
In addition, a husband is also obliged to provide a religious understanding of a wife's obligations to her husband. So that the wife can understand that all his attitudes and actions are forbidden in Islam. That way the wife can change, and the household becomes happy.